Now we are engage!

Hoenstly, people don't ask me for a date! When an invitation arrives that's the date. There will be two celebration I have decided.

Work has me so swamp that I barely have time to eat my lunch. I have no energy to even have time for Carl. Carl thinks I have change. Just because I am too tired to have sex. Is that any different from any other day? Folks want to call him and tell him the truth? He thinks the theory that once you are engage the person will change. If I have time to descramble my brain, realize and celebrate my engagement, I will be happy. Reality has not hit me. Maybe next weekend on my trip to California!!

It is so sad but work as a Graphic User Interface Designer for MBBNA/Bank of America has truely consume my energy level. Don't get me wrong...I love this job. It sounds horrible but it is challenging and I love that about it. You might never understand. An easy description of what I do is putting a jigsaw puzzle together on a website using almost no tables.

Engagement!

Well, who would have thought that after 7 years of dating, Carl would finally be ready to settle down. I almost gave up and was ready to move on. On my birthday, the boy said he was ready to commit. I was like what!!!!!?? I was totally clueless.

Ready for what? I told him to stop playing. We were at the store looking at jewelery and I was teasing and went looking at rings. He was ready to buy the ring. I freaked out. I told him to stop being a comedian. It was almost closing time. I feel bad for the sale guy and I told him this is a big purchase and Carl and I needed to TALK!!. So, we left and we were actually talking to his sister, Angel on the phone at the time. She was so excited. She was screeching and laughing. I did not think it was funny, honestly.

Actually I was freaking out. I was scared. We discuss and I asked him are you ready or am I preasuring you. I did not want to be one of those woman that was pressuring him to settle down. I want him to be at his own time. I don't want any regrets. He said I am my own person.

We call my aunt and she gave her blessing. The next day we found the ring that I love. You can view the ring on our photo gallery. The rest of the story can also be read on the gallery as well. Read on.

Wet Platinum!!!

Further discussion later!!!!

Here is my story...

I went to a store call Passionale in South Street with my friends, Rachel and Dena. Saw a product call Wet Platinum. Would you trust using this stuff on your body????

It is for intercourse. If you are sensitive about reading this subject don't please. This product description is to provide longer lasting glide during intercourse. Yes! Sounds great huh! Also, great for moisturizing body massage and skin conditining. Sounds very .... how should we describe it slippery. Next description... also revitalizes dry leather and latex clothing. Would you trust this product for intercourse??? Carl will be using this product to revitalize the leather seats in his car.

A joke I played on Carl!

This weekend, Dena and I took a shopping trip to Christiana Mall in Delaware. Judy, when you come to visit, I will take you to on a trip Delaware if schedule permits to shop. It is the land of tax free shopping.

Here is the story... I am sure Dena and Rachel and Jen told. I went to Lord and Taylor to browse. Yes to browse! I saw jewelry (did I spell this right) sale. HE HE! 50% and extra 20% What a deal! So I saw this beautiful ring. It is a very modern style design band ring. The original price is $375 and I got it for $135. I love it. It has diamonds. I did not care who bought it for me. My parents or my aunt or Carl but I was buying it. I was getting money from family members anyway so why not for my big 30th birthday. I told Dena I was going to bill Carl as well.

I got home that night before Carl. When he got back. I said to him "Thank you" for your nice gift. I hid my finger from him. He said what did you and Dena do now. I gave him the bag with the receipt and the box. He was puzzle when he look at the box and the receipt. I told him he owe me the money. I gave him the ring. He said that was a nice ring. He was a bit tipsy. He HE!!!

I gave him my right hand and said he should get on his knees. He told me to go to Hell! Anyway, the poor sucker put it on my right finger and I told him that since he put it on my right ring finger, we are engaged. Don't take it seriously folks! It is a joke. I love my ring. It is a birthday gift! Just another funny story to tell you.

My car has arrived!

Today I drag Carl and Dena to check out my new car. It has arrived from the port of NY. The color is "Black Sand Pearl". Dena, my gadget inspector friend, made sure everything was there. She made sure my future Ipod has a plug. Carl made sure his flat screen TV or trinkets from Ikea can fit in the back with the seat folded down. Our current car's back seat does not fold down. Luxury is beautiful but inadequate and just for looks if you want my opinion. I check the hood like my dad would. It is too cute. Yes it has the cutest engine. I love it! Can't wait to drive my friends around. Just up and down the block. Oh, I forgot incase you ask I got the base four door sedan Yaris not the S version.

The hunt for a new car

I can't believe what a headache it is to buy a new car. Today, I took Carl and Nick, my brother with me to the Toyota delaership to find "my car". My mom insist she can find me the deal of the lifetime but this woman insist on me buying the car of "her dream." Yeah right! We went from Conshohocken to Cherry Hill. Poor Carl's BMW! It really needs some serious repair.

Oh I can say this now and I won't get fired. Damn the "Street" Philadelphia potholes is killing the BMW. I think I seiously killed the alignment as well as the shocks. Also, where the hell is my PA and Philadelphia taxes going. Can I select where my tax money should be distributed to? 95S needs some serious repairs especially when you come out from the damn ramp out of Olde City.

Ok I am done with ranting. Back to car shopping. I finally found the "car." I cannot find a use car that is at a reasonable price range. So, Toyota came out with the Yaris. The price was right. Cherry Hill Toyota provided me a fully loaded car but it still has be deliver from the port. The dealer also has to see if the car I want has the color I want also. This car is actually fresh of the boat from Japan folks.

It is cute. Good size for me. I am just sad that I have to dump this amount of cash out. I do not care how much I make, I do not want to have a car payment. Bummer!!!! The car insurance is also freaking expensive. What the f______!!! I just want to say to all bad drivers and uninsured drivers in Philly that made my premium so high... Shame on you better yet you %^^$#@$%%^&%#@!$&*:">(. AHHH much better! Anyway when my new car gets in I will take a picture. For now check it at the Toyota site.

New JOB!!

I love my new job! I have no computer access but I love my new job. I have my own phone line. At the library, we has to share and fight one extension with 6 people. It is a much hectic work environment but we have so many people that are willing to help you. The resources are unlimited. We have a cafeteria that makes you delicious sandwiches and a fantastic hot bar and also a yummy saladbar like whole foods with soup. We also have breakfast bar too that will make omelet. Yes, I am loving it.

Most important... I can get Starbucks coffee.

My managers are really great. I already love them.

Our First Passover Seder

It was a great tradition. Too much wine and I will definitely stick with grape juice and we have to start early next year or I have to take a day off.

If you have no clue what I am talking about because you are not Jewish I guess you have to research or ask the great Dena. I am still trying to figure out if Elijah has any connection with St. Nick. Read it or get invited to the Seder next year?

Dena thank and the meal was fabulous. Sorry we can't stay longer. We had to work the next day.

Continue about my new job...

Welcome Kaitlyn Isabella Ky!

Today my best friend, Phouvy and her husband, Dave welcome the arrival of their first child, a baby girl, to the world at 7:50 a.m pacific time. Her name is Kaitlyn Isabella Ky. She weighs 5.9 lbs. Congratulations Dave and Phouvy!!! I am still shock that my best friend is a "mommy". This little girl will be so spoil by me. So, Dave and Phouvy...Sorry if I buy her the pony that will be in the yard.

Goals for my pet can achieve...

You know how parents have goals they wish their kids can achieve well I have goals that I wish Molly can achieve. Yes I have high standards for my pet.

She already watches TV.
She understand come here.
She understand stay and no and dinner.
She box as Liz puts it eventhough I think she slaps me on purpose when I sleep especially when it is 5 am.

But watch this video. Do you think Carl can train her to do this? I love how I say Carl not me Carl. She works better with Carl. I can see it now one day when we have kids. Carl will be toilet training. Not me. Carl. He has more patience.

A new job!

Last week I went for an interview at MBNA for a consulting job and within two hours I received the news that I was offered the job. I was so excited, you should hear me scream on the phone with Carl. I was half way laughing and screaming. I have no clue what kind of creature I sounded like. I told Jen and Dena and my cousin Jo and my dad and MIke D. Than after the excitement the scary moment of being a consultant and leaving the library sets in. No Vacation, No Sick. UGH!! But working for MBNA I can't pass that up and this is working on the website for the merging with Bank of America. I will be a Graphic User Interface Designer. I will be a GUID. Sound that out!

About FLP! When you work for a company for so long and a comfortability level sets in. It almost feels like HOME but you know you have to leave eventually. You can stay forever. Not only that but all the cool friendships that I have made at FLP. Restaurant week trip! Recipes Exchange!

I will miss my arguments with Jen and Lamont! Lamont I will miss your stinky fish meal...Yeah right! Laura, thank you for taking me and trusting me just because I know what a jpeg image is. I will miss Jen telling me she is hungry and what do you want for lunch! I will miss Jim's sarcastic comments. I will miss my afternoon walk with Dena, Sally, and Rachel! Fancy dinners at RBD until Bill took it away. I will miss the Draper's teasing! Bugging Liz what are good books for Carl's teenage nieces and newphews! I have learned a lot at the Free Library of Philadelphia and I will miss everyone.

I will not buy you guys lavish gifts or dinners by the way. It is not goodbye but I will see you soon!! If it does not work out..Save me a spot!

IUD Recovery

I think I am fine sometimes and sometimes not. The spotting is horrible. I learn Ibuprofen actaully stops bleeding.

Let me tell you... Jen was right. It does feel like someone is jabbing you with a hanger. Ok I am exagerrating. It hurts. It really hurts. It feels like bad cramps and someone is opening your uterus up. What can I say I am a wimp. I have very low pain tolerance.

I got it done and someone thinks he is at home stretch till the doctor say Carl, you have to use condom till the first menstruation cycle. HA HA. I hope the paragard is in there and have not move. I am not going through the insertion again.

The nurse praticionar said that it is just floating in my uterus. That is quite interesting. A little plastic thingy floating away! Nice picture I see. How is that proctecting me from getting pregnant????

IUD

Today is the day! Yes I am posting it everyone. I am not bashful about this. I am getting an IUD. I am very excited and nervous. I just hope no cramps and an easy procedure. Carl is very excited. Pathetic man but I have to break the news to him. He thinks he wiill getting over his frustration but he probably won't for a few more days. HA HA. What a bitch I am!

The Fate of Two

On Monday and Thursday, my neighbor, Brian and my cat, Molly decided that 5:30 a.m was a very reasonable time to get up and make some noise. Brian decided it was perfectly ok to turn on the garbage disposal and slam some kitchen cabinets. Of course my sweet and smart boyfriend, Carl, moved the headboard to the wall by Brian's kitchen and the sound is quite excruciating for someone who has been having migraines for a few days. Molly decides "Hey It's Playtime". Let's gallop through the house at 100 mph and sound like a herd of deers going through the loft. Why not? On Monday, after galloping she decide what was even better, let's pounce on the plastic bag and make tons of rusty noises. Thursday: Brian repeated the same routine with music and Molly got her loudest bell balls and roll to the beat. I was ready to kill cabinet slammer boy and Molly. I did not. I wish they sleep a bit longer maybe an hour.

Happy Birthday!

Yesterday was Carl's 37th Birthday and today is Molly 2nd Birthday! No, I did not plan this and I am not making this up. This is true and I have proof of it from the vet and the person I adopted her from.

Carl's Return and Result of my Week

When you plan for a calm and relaxing week, why does it never outcome to that? Oh right! I did have two pleasant time. I went to Liz's 29th Birthday party which I had a great time and I had dinner with Yana which I had a great night as well.

My week was rough. I plan for such an awesome week and just ended up to sit home. Sitting home is not so bad but I was tired and overwhelmed from work. I had no energy to go play. I actually can't wait for Carl to get home and just cuddle up with him. It was great to see him. I also realized I still needed my queen or king size bed.

Molly was excited to see Carl. She ran right to him for his love and started to fight and box. I am so glad the family is back together.

Carl is on vacation!!!

Carl has finally left for his trip to VEGAS/detour Manassas. He will be getting his flight from Dulles... going with the boys. Sorry I am very excited as everyone knows. I love you baby if you are reading my blog but I am finally getting some sleep.

Carl has been having some horrible back pains and it has been rough for 2 weeks and I have not really have some decent sleep. I can't wait, me and the bed has a date! Molly has alredy started missing her Daddy but with some Fancy Feast, Turkey Feast, Daddy Who? She will have sweet slumber through the night.

My week has been booked solid. The book I have been waiting for has arrived. Tonight: getting dinner with Dena at Lee How Fook. Tomorrow: Hanging out with Corey for Happy Hour with Moore Alumni. Thursday... Book Night or maybe I will show up for Season Finale of Project Runway. Friday: Dinner with Yana. Saturday: Birthday Tea Party for Liz. Sunday: Pick Carl UP! Eventhough I hang out with the girls all the time and Carl has his boys night on Friday and sometime Thursday, it is quite exciting to have a week.

It's our Anniversary....

Well, Carl and I have been together for 6 years now if you do not count the breaking up. The funny thing is I got confused. HE HE. I thought we have been together for 8 years and I counted wrong. I must have counted 1998 which included my ex ex (2 of them) into it. Ha Ha. Silly me!

1 major thing we have accomplish as a ocuple is that we went on our first vacation last year. We had a great time in Los Angeles and San Diego.

Warning... Treadmills are dangerous

I always have a fear of the treadmills but people always tells me you can burn xxx amount of calories if you run x amount of miles. Yes, I might get to burn the calories but what if I slip and fall with that spinning belt. That belt is very dangerous.


So, I did a research and I have finally found a video to prove my theory.



Stick to walking on the streets or riding the stationary bike!!!

Ever feel this way?

 

Someone showed me this comic today and immediately I thought how true and I sighed. I had to share this.